Section 6:

Managing Expectations

One of the biggest sources of conflict is unrealistic expectations.

Reality Check

Many players dream of:

• Provincial rugby
• University rugby
• Professional rugby
• International rugby

There is nothing wrong with dreaming.

But expectations must be balanced with reality.

Healthy Expectations

Focus on:

• Daily habits
• Effort
• Improvement
• Character

Not outcomes.

Unhealthy Expectations

Obsessing over:

• Team selection
• Rankings
• Scholarships
• Contracts

These are often outside a player's control.

Parent Mindset Shift

Replace:

"How far can my child go?"

With:

"How much can my child grow?"

This creates a healthier environment.

Make It Stick