Section 5:
Understanding Motivation
Many parents unknowingly become external motivators.
Examples:
- Rewards
- Bribes
- Pressure
- Threats
Examples
"If you score, we'll buy you something."
"If you don't make the team, no holiday."
These approaches rarely create long-term motivation.
Better Motivation
Help players connect rugby to:
- Enjoyment
- Personal growth
- Team contribution
- Self-improvement
Ask:
- What do you enjoy most?
- What are you working on?
- What are your goals?
The Difference
External Motivation
"I play because my parents expect it."
Internal Motivation
"I play because I love improving."
Internal motivation lasts much longer.
Make It Stick
Your turn
In your own words, what was the key idea in "Part 5: Understanding Motivation"?
Your notes
Your notes and next steps for "Part 5: Understanding Motivation"