Section 7:

When Your Child Wants to Quit

This is one of the hardest situations for parents.

First Rule

Do not panic.

Many young athletes experience periods of:

• Frustration
• Burnout
• Fatigue
• Disappointment

Questions to Ask

Instead of:

❌ "You're not quitting."

Ask:

✅ "What's making rugby difficult right now?"

Explore:

• Coaching issues
• Playing time
• Injury
• School stress
• Confidence
• Friendship challenges

Temporary vs Permanent Decisions

Sometimes players need:

• A short break
• Reduced pressure
• Better balance

Not necessarily complete withdrawal.

Parent Worksheet

If your child wants to quit:

Write answers to:

1. What happened recently?
2. What emotions are they experiencing?
3. What support do they need?
4. What lessons can be learned?

Make It Stick